Why can’t people just say what they mean? Is it really that hard to be honest with another person or even yourself? I believe if we say what we mean then there is no guessing what the other person is feeling, thinking, or even wondering. Are others people options about us really impact how we speak or even if we tell the truth? Do we really not want to hear the truth about ourselves? I know that I have been finding the truth very refreshing. The truth has had me answer questions about myself. These questions that I ask myself have been hard to answer. Even changing how I feel about thing and my relationships with people. What all this comes down to is that I want to hear what people feel for real not this fake feelings that they share with people to make them thing that everything is ok. I think it’s time to start telling the truth.
This has come in to view because of a guy that is trying to come back in my life after standing me up. I don’t know if this changes my feelings about him or how he feels. Or even if I could feel that I could trust him again. Thru all of the communication with this guy has made me wonder why people can’t say what they mean and mean what they say. I have also been talking to someone that has been very open and honest with me from the beginning about what he wants. His honesty keeps me on my toes and makes me feel more comfortable to say things to him.
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